First off, I definitely am so thankful for my hubby. He is the sweetest, most sensitive, considerate, loving husband there could be. He is absolutely perfect for me and I love him to pieces.
So, with that said...I talked to my sister in law about this and she agrees with me on the matter...let me know what you think...
Our husbands will ask us where something is located (ie: their shoes, keys) BEFORE actually looking for it themselves. It drives us crazy!
Devin knows this drives me nuts, but this conversation we had the other night. Check out what he admitted to:
Devin, "Sweets, do you know where my Hawaiian shoes are?"
Ruthann, "Did you look for them?"
At this point, Devin started cracking up like he had just heard the funniest joke ever.
Ruthann, "Why are you laughing?"
Devin, "This was my actual thought process, 'I can't find my shoes. I could look for them. Nah, I'll just ask Ruthann where they are.'"
Then I started laughing because that is the exact thing we're (Elisha & I) are talking about! He knew HE could look for them, but BEFORE even TRYING, he asked me. It's one thing if they've looked and can't find them and then ask for our help. That's reasonable. But, after I've been dealing with little kids' problems all day, I think it's reasonable to expect my adult husband to be able to figure it out for himself! Plus, it's not like they ask every once in a while. This happens at least once a day.
It probably sounds like I'm over reacting, but if you are a wife of a husband who does this, I'm sure you can give me an "Amen."
Quit being lazy and just look for your own dang shoes!
Your Sweet Wives